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Author's Foreword

Introduction

Acceptance

True Accomplishments

The Value of Action

The Value of Action(2)

Accepting Advice

Anger

The Positive Side of Arrogance

Faulty Assumptions

Attentiveness

Attitude

Attitude (2)

The Proper Attitude (3)

Awakening the Jewish Spark; The "Pintele Yid"

Jewish Roots - A Sense of Belonging

Bravery

The Benefit of a Broken Heart

Challenge

Change

Child-Rearing

Choices

Honoring G-d's Choices

Compassion

Competition

Concentration

Inner Conflict

Eternal Connection

Crisis

How to Give Criticism

Depression

The Importance of Eating

Education

Effort

Empathy

Channeling Enthusiasm

Equanimity

Balancing One's Excitement

Excuses

Faith

Fame

Finding G-d

Flexibility

The Proper Focus

Goal Setting

Achieving Goals

Gossip

Gratitude

Hastiness

Healing

Good Health

A Happy Home

Humility

Positive Hypocrisy

Hypocrisy (2)

Identity

Influence

Inspiration

The Power of Intellect

Introspection

Judging Others

Judgmentalness

The Wisdom of a True Leader

Lifting Spirits

Creating Light

Living in the Moment

Lust

Materialism

What Matters

Meditation

Moodiness

The Truth About Motivation

Life's True Necessities

Missed Opportunities

The Pitfalls of Perfectionism

Persistence

Advice for Personal Growth

Proper Planning

Finding the Positive in the Negative

Possession

Prayer

True Prayer

Purpose

Quality of Living

Rationalization

Rationalization (2)

Reaching Out to Others

Security

Security (2)

Self-Assessment

Self-Concern

Self-Control

Purposeful Self-Denial

Self-Esteem

Self-Sacrifice

Slander

The Power of Speech

Success

Suffering

The Power of Thought

The Proper Use of Time

Toil

Toil (2)

Understanding Tragedy

Making the Best of Tragedy

Truth and Honesty

Who Are We?

Worry

Maintaining Youth

Chassidic Soul Remedies
Inspirational Insights for Life's Daily Challenges

Judging Others

Rabbi Dovid Shraga Polter

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The Previous Rebbe was once questioned about his efforts to befriend all Jews, even those who are the opposite of those "who are to be promoted and not to be cast down."[29]

The Previous Rebbe replied: "The Shulchan Aruch consists of four parts: Orach Chayim, Yoreh Deah, Even Ha'ezer and Choshen Mishpat. The laws concerning issues of 'promoting' appear in Choshen Mishpat, the final section of the Shulchan Aruch, and there itself it is in the very last sections.

"The order of learning is in the sequence mentioned: first one learns all sections of Orach Chayim, Yoreh Deah and Even Ha'ezer, and then nearly all of Choshen Mishpat, until one reaches the final few sections. Only then does he learn whether he should 'promote' or, Heaven forbid, otherwise."

The deeper meaning of this is as follows:

To do a favor for a fellow Jew is certainly a mitzvah. To cause someone harm, however, arguing that this act is in accordance with the Torah, may very well be based on a misinterpretation of the actual law. It is also possible that ulterior motives are involved. Moreover, he may be reprimanding the other not so much because the Shulchan Aruch demands it but simply because he enjoys castigating.

A judge must of necessity be a compassionate person, capable of finding merit in those he is judging. Even when he has to sentence the defendant to flogging, or a more severe penalty, he cannot personally carry out the sentence - even though the ruling is sound according to Shulchan Aruch - because of his inability to bear the other's suffering. The sentence is thus carried out by a deputy of the court.

Likkutei Sichos, vol. 1, p. 133

   

Notes:

  1. (Back to text) See Avodah Zarah 26b, where the Gemara enumerates the types of sinners that "may be cast down and need not be brought up (i.e., saved or promoted)," such as heretics, informers and apostates.


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